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Soul Mating

Before the universe was created there was love. When the Big Bang occurred, the essence of love was spread throughout the cosmos. Within the molecules of love were the makings for two true soul mates to come together and experience the blissful, kingdom of heavenly love.

Two souls -- destined for each other long before the universe was fully created and expanded. In the search for the perfect soul mate, choices and decisions will be made that will hopefully bring you closer to finding your true soulmate. Life's choices teach you how to observe and interpret the cosmic feedback, rendering you back on course towards finding your other self -- your soul mate.

This union of two souls and two selves has no limitations. The love in this relationship surpasses all ego and body boundaries and fills the entire universe beyond time and space. Therefore, there is no fear of death for both of you will always be together in cosmic time, beyond earthly boundary limitations ... Each other's one and only true love. This is Soul Mating!

Divorce and Soul Mating

I am sure that you are aware that most marriages take place with someone other than a soulmate. Soulmate marriages occur quite infrequently and divorce is part of the process of growth that is required for attaining soulmate marriage.

Most of us have been directly or indirectly influenced by society's stigmatizing attitudes concerning divorce. It seems that our present intellectual and emotional orientation towards marriage and divorce is still being somewhat negatively determined and influenced by archaic belief systems that belong to outmoded periods of history. The previous statement is not meant to negate the importance of attempting everything possible in order to correct a marriage that has gone badly.

As a marriage and family Counselor trained in mental health, I have seen many marital relationships that have gone through a spiritual and emotional correction process. I have also been privy to being deeply involved in the personal transformation of individuals who have undergone deep and profound changes in their spiritual, emotional, interpersonal and mental lives. The growth process is intricately bound up with and interwoven with relationship and marital connections.

The American Dream Ideal

For full spiritual, emotional and mental self-determination to take place it must occur within the context of the American Dream Ideal. That ideal espouses that everyone is guaranteed the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. To stay in a rotten, unworkable, destructive marriage goes against that ideal. The matter of divorce is a moral right, cosmically attuned to the correction process that is so necessary for attaining soul mating. Free will and self-determination must be a value that is held higher than becoming attached to a stigmatizing divorce guilt process.

Most societies, including our own, reject self-determination, free will and the pursuit of happiness through soul mating in the process of divorce. But, divorce is a developmental point where one is reaching into the next stage of self development and possible soul mating. If guilt and shame is attached to divorce, then why are so many people ecstatically happy when they find themselves freed up from a non-soul mating relationship?

I am suggesting that a new perception, a new paradigm be put on the process of divorce as being a necessary ritual for self development into the world of soul mating. If a marriage fails, it is because the participants have not yet fully risen to their next stage of emotional and spiritual development. The freeing up from a archaic marriage provides an open window into the cosmic realization of the soul mating correction process. It is your right to extricate yourself from a destructive situation in order to proceed to your next level of self development and spiritual realization. If you work on yourself and your relationship developmental potential, you will be actively engaged in a spiritual correction process that leads to soulmate realization. It may also lead you to realizing the mysterious experience of the American Dream.

Loose Guilt And Stigma

Many people are afraid and ashamed to openly discuss and admit to marital failure and divorce. Likewise, many are ashamed and embarrassed to acknowlrdge that they are stuck in non-soul mating, non-growthful relationships. Perhaps, each situation provides some kind of opportunity for lesson learning, wisdom and potential growth. Even stagnation has within its DNA structure, the potential for rapid self realization. Does this mean that depression itself is a universal, cosmic class room for self correction, relationship growth and eventual soulmate realization? The answer is: "Possibly!"

And now to the basics: In order to release the guilt and stigma of marital failures and divorce, you must hold the goal of release in your mind. Whatever your mind can behold, it can realize. First, you need to know the words for success:

"I am proud, overjoyed and extremely happy that I have completely extricated and freed myself from a non-soul mating relationship. I am proud that I have gone beyond the primitive stages of my past relationship choices and experiences. I am deeply and fully involved and enveloped in the soul mating process. I have realized my soul mating potential and stand ready to fully receive the ecstasy of soul mating. I am soulmated, ecstatic, happy, joyful, blissful and fully reunited with my other half. It is with gratitude, humility and thankfulness that I accept the gift of growth, love and deliverance from God, Himself."

"I stand confident, grounded and centered in my experience and realization of the American Dream."

Sin, Soul Mating and Correction

In marriage and divorce, the potential for sinning against yourself, another person and God is very high. The word "Sin" is not use much in everyday vernacular and conversation. The term "Sin" is not even a part of our educational system lexicon. It has been carefully extricated and carved away from our secular use of language interaction. But, "Sin" has not been eradicated from our "Soul, Spiritual Process and Consciousness." Therefore, when the pain gets to be too rough, then Sin consciousness penetrates mental activity.

The correction process reveals the presence of Sin in the core of your being. The acknowledgment and redemption from Sin becomes an integral part of soul cleansing and preparation for the reunification with your predetermined soulmate.

AAAhaaaa..... you say! My soulmate is predetermined? Answer: From the beginning of time, at the very dawn of creation! Once you know this, you are less likely to commit the Sin of choosing to be in a non-soul mate relationship. Therefore, your knowledge of the preexistence of your soul mating process, can help you to be more responsible, honest and real in your relationship choices. If that's not possible, then you are left with the wonderful option of painfully learning from your mistakes, claiming redemption and salvation, while preparing and awaiting for your predetermined soul partner to reconnect with you.

An Example ...

Consider David and Bathsheba. Bathsheba was David's soulmate and according to cosmic law, married to him from the beginning of creation. You ask, "Didn't David Sin against Uriah by coveting his wife and then sending him to be killed in battle?" Answer: according to the customs of ancient Israel, warriors gave a bill of divorce to their wives before they went into battle. So, David did not Sin against Uriah by taking Bathsheba. David had a right, as king, to kill Uriah for disrespecting him by calling Joab "my Lord Joab" while in David's presence. David committed a Sin against God by letting Uriah be killed by an Ammonite sword, engraved by a pagan god. When the sword of Ammon killed Uriah, the pagan god was strengthened by David. This was a Sin against the God of Israel. The death sentence imposed upon Uriah was for insulting king David.

This sounds like a pretty tough example of Sin, soul mating and correction. If you are going through a divorce correction process, you will undoubtedly become extremely aware of what Sins of your youth are beginning to up well into your heart and soul. This realization of your sinfulness will depend on how open and honest you are in making confession to yourself and God and then asking for forgiveness, redemption and purification. It is this process which will put you into the same circumstances encountered by David and Bathsheba, whereupon they received their just punishments, corrections and deliverance from evil.

Then again, you may already have met your true soulmate and are required to make certain adjustments in order to make the edges fit. It is quite common, for someone to be transitioning out of a non-soulmate relationship and into a soulmate relationship. Your former un aligned non-soulmate mentality will need to go through a correction process in order for you to fit in to your future soulmate! Without that adjustment fitting, realignment with your true self/soulmate will be difficult; but not impossible!

Revelation and Verification

If you are involved in an extensive experience of deep self-exploration and growth, you are probably following a model that is based on revelation and verification. Whatever technique, approach or school of self exploration you are engaged in, you will be exposed to the deeper openings to universal and cosmic truths. These revelations can leave you somewhat isolated if you do not go to outside resources in order to confirm and validate your inner experiences. This combination of revelation and confirmation can leave you feeling connected to an ongoing stream of consciousness shared by yourself with other human beings.

At times, your revelations will seem unique and somewhat isolated. This does not mean that there are not cosmic sources of confirmation for your inner experience. It is helpful to remember that your soul is unique, while at the same time sharing in the cosmic pool of spiritual awareness. You are here on earth, during this lifetime to grow and learn specific important lessons. Your knowledge acquisition is never completed and as such may have to be recycled through many incarnations. This reality is comforting, since it feeds into your need to know that the pleasures of obtaining wisdom and supernal revelation are ongoing and eternal.

Let it be a comfort to you that you can anticipate that either now or at a distant point in time, you will reunite with your preordained, predestined other self; your soulmate. Whatever obstacles lie in the path of that realization need to be studied and understood so that you can prepare yourself to propel into the next stage of your development.

If you are amongst the lucky few who have attained soulmate status and the American dream, I congratulate you and say, " Mazeltov."






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