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You are driving me nuts! I can't stand it. Every time that I try to get close to you, you push me away. What is this a course in separation? First, you abuse me and accuse me of all kinds of crazy things. I'm tired of trying to explain to you and other people that I am innocent. Oh, you want to fight, don't you? Every time I talk to you, it ends up in some kind of big argument. You kick me out, then you invite me back in. What am I a YO YO?"


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Dealing with the Pain

I fully understand that you are going through enormous pain with the on-again/off-again nature of your most important relationship. I also understand that there are huge differences in the way that most people deal with their pain. Some people are suited for a more experiential, feeling approach. Others may have an affinity for cognitive/behavioral strategies. Also, I would not want to forget the spiritual element that is usually a part of your separation process. One thing is for certain, you will learn a great deal through your Three Month Intensive.

 

A thorough assessment will be made of your therapeutic style and a well-fitted plan will be designed for where you are at during this time in your life. You and your partner may require different styles for dealing with your emotional pain. I have found that an integrated, combined approach may be the best way to go, based on your internal healing model. You will not be made to fit into any prescribed method unless you feel it is suitable for you. You can be assured that all available reading materials will be suggested to you, in order for you to make an informed choice. Otherwise, I will explain the different methods and options that you may wish to explore and utilize.

 

I will only be too happy to explain the different therapeutic technologies that are available, so that you can pick what feels right to you. Remember, these are your feelings and your pain will constitute a major focus for your concerns. This may be a time of great emotional pain for you. But, this separation experience will definitely teach you how to embrace and work your pain in order to achieve your maximum personal development.










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