|
Joe: "Everything is wrong
in my life. My wife hates me, my job sucks and my kids, who knows? What
do I do?"
Dr. Paul: This could
sound like material for a Rodney Dangerfield comedy monologue.
But, I'll keep it serious and move it into what I think is a good topic
for profound change...
"Attitude Shifting"
Sounds simple? Not
quite. When something or everything seems to go wrong, don't you wish
there could be a tremendous shift of consciousness and action? Well, it
can be and you can do it with some hard work and effort.
A shift
in attitude can open up new horizons and vistas. You will need to
decide if a shift in attitude is in your best interest and something
you might like to explore and attempt.
"First ..."
Take out a piece
of paper and up on the left-hand corner write down some of your goals
for this year, and free associate to those goals. Everything that first
comes into your mind write it down. You are
opening up the unconscious reservoir located in the deep recesses of
your mind.
Now, prepare to
shift your attitude and feelings so that the tone of the words that
come out of your mouth creates and sends a positive vibration that
penetrates the energy of the future and sets up new possibilities for
you.
You might ask,
"How do I do that?" In order to erase your negativity and
create positive future possibilities, think of a very powerful verbal
phrase that could change your entire life, or at least a small part of
it. Words and thoughts generally represent your way of being in the
world. Words and thoughts are extremely powerful. They can either
create or destroy. They can lift you up or bring your down. Or, worst
of all, they can bore you to death.
Write
down the very first words that come to your mind, based on this
assignment. If they are extremely negative, use your mind to shift
those words and your feelings into the direction that is going to
create a positive vibration in your life and the quantum soup of the
universe. This may sound like forced optimism but, you have already
acknowledged your negative thoughts and feelings. Take responsibility
for them and decide if you want to create the skills to change your
thinking, feelings and ultimately your life. You choose your life!
Isn't it time to set yourself on a more positive and creative course?
Try
these Attitude Shifting phrases: "I love you. I believe deeply
and sincerely in your worth and value. I will be there for you
completely and without reservation. I didn't like that at first and I
put it down. I am shifting my thinking to a more positive direction and
will include that thing into my universe. By so doing, I expand my mind
and my vision."
"Open your Mind and
Shift your Attitude"
This
next piece of information may help you in your quest. Every person has
locked within their mind, an ideal self. This ideal self is constructed
of thoughts and feelings and archetypes of the way the world, people,
situations and your very own self should and could be. It is the ideal
inner and outer world. Unconsciously, everybody is trying to create and
manipulate the universe, the workplace, other people, children,
partners, lovers, spouses, relatives into the ideal universe of the
personal mind. This is not a bad thing! But, you can get into trouble
trying to shape everyone else and every situation into your unconscious
model of the ideal.
"The Good News"
The good news is
that you can create peace within yourself. One of the ways to do that
is to seriously consider Attitude Shifting and deep inner
transformative work. Attitude Shifting can be effectively learned
through my Life Coaching Program. Remember, success is a state of
mind and a way of being. Establish goals, eliminate
roadblocks, and actualize your potential to achieve what you want
with Life Coaching. Dr. Paul at your service!
Meanwhile,
I have to go now, I have been called in to help a major organization
recover from its negativity and shift into a new culture that more
closely resembles the ideal for that organization.
Success story!Learn how one 21-year-old male
rescued a multi-million-dollar organization from going bankrupt, just
by saving their basketball program. This is a success story based on
the hero's journey, where the right attitude, guts, skill and a great
plan helped keep a very vital organization from going under.
|
