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PSYCHOTHERAPYHELP NEWS
by Dr. Paul Hannig
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Greetings!
The New Year has arrived and is in full swing! With the
beginning of any new cycle, plans are made to expedite success ... whether it's
finances, work, relationships, family, spiritual connection, or
"self" improvement. To that end, I've created a 7-point plan below to
help you achieve success in any endeavor. Use it or lose it (as the old saying
goes) ... and good luck in your journey to the top.
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HOW TO SUCCEED IN ANY ENDEAVOR
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1. DEVELOP ADVOCATES: Look for those people who are most
likely to support and understand your motives, projects, endeavors and goals.
Teamwork, without internal adversaries, is a standard requirement for success
in all human relationships.
2. MARKET YOUR MAGIC: Everyone, including you, has
magnificent ideas, brilliant strategies, workable plans, goals and unique
gifts. You will need to learn how to get the Magic of You, out there so that
other people can respond positively to your charisma and special personality
traits.
3. POLISH YOUR MANNER: Your delivery, style and manner of
presenting yourself will determine how you are perceived and received in the
world. Make sure that you work on your social, emotional skills. Try to be warm,
nondefensive, empathic, charming, personable, pleasant, honest and giving.
Nobody likes a grouch, constant complainer or any of the various types of
alienating, negativistic people who make our lives miserable. If they don't
meet your needs and you don't meet their needs, take the offending behavior out
of your life; especially if it's yours.
4. CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GROWTH: Personal growth in all areas
will definitely make you a better person and others will benefit from what you
have to impart from your expanded self. Gather your tools, props, mentors and
vigorously pursue your own personal emotional, physical, spiritual, mental and
entrepreneurial health. Nobody likes a deadhead! Become rich internally!
5. INCREASE YOUR INVOLVEMENT: You can't share what has been
given to you, if you play the shrinking violet or social hermit. Find ways to
overcome your resistances, challenges and blockages to getting involved in all
aspects of life. It's not over until you say it's over. Keeping your gifts to
yourself deprives the world of your extremely valuable contributions. You ain't
dead, yet, baby! Someday, you will be. What will live on after you have gone?
6. CREATE COMMENTARY: If you put yourself out there, people
will respond and dialogue will develop. You are a creature endowed with speech.
What comes out of your mouth, creates dialogue. Only you can determine the
nature of that dialogue. I welcome you to verbally respond to this newsletter
and the commentary could make everyone benefit. You may not know it, but, love
can be expressed in everything that you do.
7. DEFINE YOUR OWN POTENTIAL: There is a vast reservoir of
potential inside of you. Are you developing it? If not, your self-destructive
urges and behavior will keep you from realizing your full potential. As a
mentor, who has been mentored, I am amazed as I look around me and see so many
wonderful people realizing, exploring and expanding unlimited potentials. There
are infinite possibilities and you are only limited by your limited thinking.
Dream big and work towards your goals. Everything emanates from that Energy
Center called the sefirot of wisdom, knowledge, understanding and insight. I
just love it when that part of my mind/soul opens up and allows the gifts of
God to come through. Maybe it's time to say, "Thank you."
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THE PAUL HANNIG MENTORING PROGRAM: A mentor is someone who
sees and appreciates your potential and helps you to develop it. Under my
guidance, I will let you know when you are getting in the way of your own
self-realization. As your mentor, I will support and reinforce your unique path
and help you overcome obstacles and blockages. For more information about my
mentoring program, please contact me at phannigphd@socal.rr.com.
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Telephone Therapy is highly successful and takes place in
the comfort, convenience, and privacy of your home. Go to
http://www.nvo.com/psych_help/telephonetherapy/ for more info.
Explore PsychotherapyHELP. Download free articles, gather
in-depth information, and email me with your questions. Go to
http://www.nvo.com/psych_help/door/.
Want to read some of the past issues of PsychotherapyHELP
Newsletter? Go to http://www.nvo.com/psych_help/newsletterstodownload/.
Two important "MUST HAVES" books for your
self-growth list: "Sizzling Relationships" and "Coping with the
Disorder". For more information and how to order go to
http://www.nvo.com/psych_help/services/.
Discover Psycho-Spiritual Therapy and the Power of Prayer.
Go to http://www.nvo.com/psych_help/prayerproject/ for more info.
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I want to thank all of you for contacting me with your
questions, concerns, and/or your search for information. At times I may even
feature some of your concerns/questions (anonymously, of course) in one of our
newsletters, but only with your permission. Please feel free to contact me
directly at phannigphd@socal.rr.com. Since it is difficult during therapy hours
to reach me by telephone, email seems to work out best. So, keep those
questions coming in.
Warmest Regards,
Paul J. Hannig, Ph.D. MFCC
PsychotherapyHELP
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email: phannigphd@socal.rr.com